The world is most definitely not black and white. But, is it really gray? Or is it full of colour. Maybe violet, blue, orange, pink, whatever colour you want it to be.
We create our own universe. We paint a sky from our emotions, energy and the attitude we display.
The way we feel, the way we treat people and how we express ourselves. That is really the colour we paint our world.
Time and time again, I express to people that the world is not black and white. There is not always a right and a wrong. Yes, murder, theft, and deceit are all “wrong” but, that is not what I am talking about.
I am talking about morals, beliefs, actions, feelings. Those are not black and white and there are most definitely not right and wrong answers to these.
We are all different. Each of these have a unique meaning to everyone. No one can dictate these.
Yes we are influenced, but our feelings deep down in our gut, in our hearts – that is developed from a young age until we are old, wrinkly and grey!
This all leads to why the the next statement is so important.
Are you ready? It’s so simple, yet so forgotten.
If I can instill anything on you, it has to be that.
Make decisions that you feel good about!
Make choices that define who you are.
Do not let others tell you what these must be. Because I have a big secret to share with you, a secret that we are all aware of but we do not act on. If we cannot be our best selves, make choices that push us further, make sacrifices that make us better people, and take action to be happy, we cannot inspire, demonstrate love or help others be their best selves!
If we can channel all this. Find what makes us happy and push forward to be the amazing individuals we are, then we can help those around us be their best selves.
So how I do I be my best self?
I eat healthy 6 out of 7 days a week, I work out at least 6 out of 7 days a week. But I do enjoy a glass of wine on a Friday or Saturday night. I do allow myself to pause my workouts and then press start again. But I don’t allow myself to give up.
I utilize methods of personal development to feed my mind. Books, quotes, interactions with new people and “me” time.
I give my body AND mind what it needs to be the best I can be.
With this, I encourage others to be their best selves. Not because I think I know best, but because I believe in each and every person I encounter.
We are all capable of being AMAZING and no one should have to tell you that, but with the way society is, I know that someone needs to. So I am that someone.
All I want is for you to accomplish your dreams, the goals you think are impossible. I want to help you along the way, but I also want you to help me.
Because the world isn’t black and white, but it also isn’t gray.
The world is all kinds of colours.
We all make up this wonderful world around us and contribute to the many aspects of it. So shine what ever colour makes you, you.
Make the choices that push you ahead, not because you want to be better than someone else but because you want to be proud of who you are!
We are all here to rock it, so let’s cheer for each other when we’re up, but also when we’re down.
Remember, never forget you are awesome because whether you are purple, yellow, red, gold, whatever colour you believe you are, whatever colour you choose to be, you are amazing and no one can take that away from you!
Your personal cheerleader